Help me get back on my feet

I really hate to do this but I'm truly desperate. Long story short, my wife had an affair and ran off to another country, leaving me as a single dad with my 3 year old daughter. She emptied all the accounts and left me completely broke, with 20k worth of debts.

I've been forced to take out multiple loans just to make rent, pay for childcare and just try to make ends meet. I now have 3 payday loans, a loan with the bank and another with a horrendous interest rate. My credit cards are maxed too. My life has gone from perfect to trying to avoid bankruptcy. I couldn't even go bankrupt as I would lose my job for it.

To top things off, my cat Marley has a urinary obstruction and I can't afford to help him. It's been a sucky few months.

I'm genuinely sorry to ask, but any help is truly appreciated.