Help from going homeless after ex ran off with all our money

I really hate to do this but I'm truly desperate. Long story short, my wife had an affair and ran off to another country, leaving me as a single dad with my 3 year old daughter. She emptied all the accounts and left me completely broke, with 20k worth of debts. I don't know if I can make payments on my house at all.

I've been forced to take out multiple loans just to make rent, pay for childcare and just try to make ends meet. I now have 3 payday loans, a loan with the bank and another with a horrendous interest rate. My credit cards are maxed too. My life has gone from perfect to trying to avoid bankruptcy. I couldn't even go bankrupt as I would lose my job for it.

I'm genuinely sorry to ask, but any help is truly appreciated. Please, help a desperate man out